The year that lies ahead can become possibly the best year of your life if you will accept one principle: WHAT YOU BELIEVE IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN WHAT YOU HAVE.
You could be one of the richest persons in the world, as Howard Hughes once was, and be a recluse hidden away in a dark and lonely hotel room obsessed by fears that terrify you. You could be the most popular entertainer in the world, as Elvis Pressley once was, and take hundreds of pills each day to ease your inner pain. You could be a highly recognized comedian, as John Belushi once was, but have such inner sadness that you will pump your veins full of a deadly narcotic. Who you are and what you have are not as important as what you believe.
Your success and happiness in the coming year will be largely determined by the following four things:
What you believe about yourself: Anorexia nervosa is an awful disease – if it can be called a disease. It afflicts mostly young women between the ages of 15 and 25. One of its most famous victims was also one of the most popular and talented singers a few years ago. Karen Carpenter believed she was too fat. As has sometimes been said, she was so thin she could stand under a clothes line in a shower of rain and not get wet. She looked very much like a victim of starvation – yet, she would still say, “I’m too fat!”
What you believe about your purpose for living: “Why am I here?” is one of life’s most basic questions. Charles L. Allen, in his book, “You Are Never Alone,” tells the story of a man named John Davis who was a farmer and self-styled, self-made man. Through his lifetime he became very wealthy, but had no friends. His wife’s family never approved of him, and had nothing to do with him. At the time of his wife’s death he hired a sculptor to erect a beautiful statue in her memory. He was so pleased that he had other statues built that were overly elaborate.
When people urged him to donate some of his money to meet community needs, he said, “What has the community ever done for me?” He died at the age of 92 in a nursing facility as a ward of the state of Kansas. No one was saddened at his passing. All that is left behind of his life is that monument in a cemetery in Lincoln, Kansas. It is mute testimony to the poverty of the values of a so-called self-made man who never understood the meaning of his life.
What kind of legacy will you leave behind when you are gone? How will your community and the world be changed in a positive way because you lived and died? What is your purpose in life? Are you fulfilling it?
What you believe about others: Millions of Americans are exercising daily and watching their diets in an effort to have good health. Did you know that loving others is also good for your health? Peter Hansen, a therapist consultant who conducts workshops, says: “Love and health go hand in hand.” James Lynch, author of The Broken Heart, says: “The mandate to ‘love thy neighbor’ is not just a moral mandate – it is also a physiological one.” Dr. Robert Taylor, a California psychiatrist, says that loving others is one of life’s greatest stress reducers. Jesus said that loving others is second in importance only to loving God.
What you believe about Jesus Christ: What you believe about Jesus Christ is the key to having a meaningful and successful new year. The Gospel of John describes Jesus as “the Word made flesh” and as “the light that shines in the darkness which the darkness cannot overcome.” Nothing is more important that what you believe about Jesus Christ.
Why is what you believe about Jesus Christ so important? It will determine what you believe about yourself, what you believe about your purpose for living, and what you believe about others. It will also determine how much priority you will give in the coming year to worship, to Bible study, and to prayer. What is happening TO you is not as important as what is happening IN you. It is what you are willing for God to do IN your life that will determine how much He will be able to do THROUGH you in the way of serving others.