Two thousand years ago in Palestine those who were devout observed three prayer times every day – 9 a.m., 12 noon, and 3 p.m. It was believed that prayer was especially meaningful if it was offered in the Temple. Therefore, every day at these three scheduled times many people could be found in the Temple praying. Jesus was there one day and called attention to two men who were praying (Luke 18:9-14).
One of them was a Pharisee. He was not there to pray to God. His prayer sounds very much like a dialogue with himself. True prayer is always offered to God and to God alone. He wasn’t dependent upon God. Rather, he was dependent upon himself. God doesn’t listen to this kind of insincere prayers.
God does not hear a comparative prayer. The Pharisee took the wrong measurements, comparing himself with a tax collector. He was looking down on another human being rather than up to God. He grasped this scheduled prayer time as an opportunity to brag on himself by putting another man down. No person’s status with God is based on being better than others. We are to be all that God gifted us to be. In our prayers the only acceptable basis of comparison is to compare our lives with Jesus Christ.
God does not hear any prayer that is based merely on externals. The Pharisee’s prayer was based on the unstable foundation of what he had done, not what he was or needed to become. Both what he had done and what he had abstained from doing were on the surface. He had accomplished it all himself. He had not depended on God to accomplish anything. Basically, he wanted God to know what a good fellow he was.
Jesus wants us to understand that pride twists and distorts our capacity for self-scrutiny. God created our minds to be truth-gathering computers. But prayers such as that of the Pharisee will make us ignore reality and forget the things that are beneath the surface agenda of our conscious perceptions and desires. Prayers such as the one prayed by this Pharisee delude us into believing that we can be right with God because of our own accomplishments and self-imagined goodness.
The purpose of prayer is to see things as they are: ourselves as we really are and God as He has reveals Himself to be through His Word. The Pharisee could only see himself. He went away from the Temple conscious only of his self-imagined goodness. Thus, he went home as empty as he came. What a pity!
The other man to whom Jesus called attention was a tax-collector. He stood afar off, and would not even lift his eyes toward heaven. His prayer was simply this: “God be merciful to me, a sinner.” His implication was not a reluctant admission that he had made a few minor mistakes. He had really screwed up his life, and he wanted God’s help. Jesus was saying, “It is heart-broken, humble prayer that God hears and blesses.”
No one who is full of pride can genuinely pray. It has been said that the gate of heaven is so low that no one can enter it unless he is on his knees. All a person needs to say is, “Just as I am, without one plea, But that thy blood was shed for me, and that thou bidd’st me come to thee, O lamb of God, I come, I come.”
No one who despises or looks down on other persons can pray sincerely. In prayer we do not lift ourselves above others. We remember that we are sinners, and that we stand in need of God’s mercy and grace. No matter how great our need or how heavy our burdens may be, God is only a prayer away. If we will hem in both ends of every day with prayer, they won’t be nearly as likely to unravel in the middle.
And remember this: nothing lies outside the reach of prayer except that which is outside the will of God.