Several years ago, I received a book in the mail from a North Carolina radio station that advertised itself as a “Christian radio station.” The book declared that God wants every Christian to be rich. It had pictures of priceless jewels, luxury cars and boats, and other expensive items that only those who are wealthy can afford. It claimed that God was going to take all of these things away from unbelievers and give them to Christians. All Christians would have to do is to ask God for them – in other words, just “name them” and “claim them.”
Such a belief is called “the prosperity gospel.” It is definitely not what God’s Word teaches about prayer – and it is utter nonsense! It makes prayer the vehicle for the expression of our greed. To believe that the sovereign God is primarily obligated to do our bidding would make Him little more than our private genie. Prayer is much more than asking God to run errands for us.
But, you may ask, does not the Bible say, “If two or three of you shall agree on earth as touching anything that they shall ask, it shall be done for them” (Matthew 18:19)? Yes, it does, but it also says many other important things about prayer prosperity gospel adherents overlook – but shouldn’t. For example, “If we ask anything according to His will He hears us” (1 John 5:14). And, “If you abide in me, and my words abide in you, you shall ask what you will, and it shall be done unto you” (John 15:7).
There are, according to the Bible, three factors that determine whether a prayer we pray will be answered in the way we want: (1) whether or not it is in accordance with God’s will, (2) whether or not it is God’s time, (3) whether the person praying is living in such a relationship with God that it would be appropriate for God to answer the prayer. We do not always know what is best for us – but God does!
We can thank God that many of our prayers are not answered precisely in the way we ask. We are encouraged to pray at all times, “Not my will but thine be done.” Sometimes our prayers are attempts to persuade God to do what we want, to bless or bring to pass our plans, not His plans. Nothing is outside the reach of prayer except that which is outside the will of God.
There is the matter of timing as well. Consider, for example, Hannah’s prayer for a son. It was years before the Lord gave her the son for whom she had prayed. At last Samuel was conceived and brought into the world. It must have seemed a long and inexplicable wait for his parents-to-be; but Samuel had to live for a certain time in order to accomplish a particular mission in Israel. God knew that; Hannah didn’t.
Consider also Nehemiah’s prayer for the rebuilding of Jerusalem. The Bible says he “wept, and mourned certain days, and fasted and prayed before the God of heaven” (Nehemiah 1:4) for the restoration of Jerusalem. The answer to his prayer came in God’s time, and how important that timing was! It had to occur on a specific day foreordained by God. From that date, 69 weeks of years (483 years) would be counted to determine the very day that Jesus would ride into Jerusalem on a donkey and be hailed as the Messiah (Daniel 9:25). Nehemiah possibly never suspected the importance of God’s timing.
Finally, affirmative answer to prayer, when it comes, is at least in part a blessing from God which indicates that the petitioner is living according to His will (1 John 3:22). Prayer is not a one-way street on which we get everything we want, and God gets nothing. The goal of prayer is to attune us to God’s will. For God to answer the prayers of those who are not willing to take the time to know His will and are careless about obeying Him in their daily lives, would only encourage them to continue to live in disobedience.